I am still familiar today with that feeling that I think we all get. I want to give my kids the world. If it weren't for them, I wouldn't have anyone to take care of me most of the time, truth be told. They aren't typical kids by any means at all. I go on and on about them because their strength and their love amazes me. That love is the best Christmas gift for me and how lucky for me that I get to have that every single day. It's truly the gift that keeps on giving. The stress began to mount on me this past week, about the money and having to look at the bills and realize that gifting wasn't going to be anything compared to the previous years. My chest tightens and I feel guilty. Then that guilt turns into a bit of anger, because I keep thinking, if only I still had my job. I miss helping my husband pay the bills and having money for the needs and wants of my kids. Drowning in all of these feelings hasn't been fun. I have made a decision. Lack of stupid ole' money is NOT going to steal away my joy. Seeing through this past year and being here to enjoy these days with my loved ones is all I need to keep my heart warm. God has blessed us with everything we need and so much more. We have angels among us that shower us with love and gifts. I watched my kids decorate the tree while we played Christmas music. My son climbed furniture and did acrobatic moves to help decorate the rest of the house. Milton and Victor put the lights on the house. I love pulling up into the driveway and looking at the house when it's all lit up that way. It never gets old. All of these things are priceless.
All of these things are possible because of God who loves us so much. I go to Bible study on different days of the week and the lessons are different, but the message is the same and it all comes together full circle. There are some times that it all weighs on me, the reality of it all and it brings to me sometimes scared feelings. I want to know more and more and root myself closer to Him. I want to try not to be so scared. This cancer scares me. I am up late right now because I can't sleep. My chest hurts and it scares me. I am having this particlar pain more and more. My doctor knows all of the pain I am enduring right now. I am not in treatment for a few more weeks because I am about to participate in a new study for women who have my particular kind of brest cancer. They removed one of my tumors and harvested the cells from it and genetically manipulated them and have turned them into a vaccine. The idea is for me to have the vaccine and hope that it boosts an immune response so that my body will start fighting the cancer. I pray that this is the answer that we need and I also pray that other women can be healed from this terrible disease once and for all.
I am hoping that this weekend we can drive around and drink some hot cocoa and look at lights together. We also get to go see Miss Cassie Massey in her school play. So many other things I want us to do together. I want to make all the memories I can with my babies. I want them to remember how much I love them.
There will be a new post after Christmas, Lord willing. I wish for all of you the very happiest Christmas. Happy Birthday Jesus!
I am hoping that this weekend we can drive around and drink some hot cocoa and look at lights together. We also get to go see Miss Cassie Massey in her school play. So many other things I want us to do together. I want to make all the memories I can with my babies. I want them to remember how much I love them.
There will be a new post after Christmas, Lord willing. I wish for all of you the very happiest Christmas. Happy Birthday Jesus!